DEAR ABBY, My husband has a long record of money problems. He runs up
huge credit card bills and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them
off, he shouts at me, saying I am stealing his money. He says pay the
minimum and let our kids worry about the rest, but already we can hardly
keep up with the interest.
Also he has been so arrogant and abusive toward our neighbors that most of
them no longer speak to us. The few that do are an odd bunch, to whom he
has been giving a lot of expensive gifts, running up our bills even more.
Also, he has gotten religious in a big way, although I don’t quite
understand it. One week he hangs out with Catholics and the next with
people who say the Pope is the Anti-Christ. And now he has been going to
the gym an awful lot and is into wearing uniforms and cowboy outfits, and
hate to think what that means.
Finally, the last straw. He’s demanding that before anyone can be in the
same room with him, they must sign a loyalty oath. It’s just so horribly
creepy! Can you help?
Signed, Lost in DC
Dear Lost: Stop whining, Laura. You can divorce the jerk any time you
want. The rest of us are stuck with him for four more years.